consider it a "gift" given to God; He will repay you, one way or another.
No he won't. He's already spent all of his gift money on toys and candy. Sorry for any inconvenience.
As for whether or not someone was judged or not, who cares? If a bum comes up to you on the street you have to JUDGE whether or not you'll give him any money. If someone you don't know comes on your discussion board and does the same thing you have to JUDGE whether or not you should give them any.
As for the whole "classes" of people on here, of course new people are going to have a harder time of things than someone who's been here a long time. Do you let your friends go through your kitchen looking for something to eat? Quite possibly. Do you let people you've never met do the same thing? I doubt it. That's not just a WT thing folks, that's a common sense thing.
Call me rude, call me cruel (people with 3 nipples sure do) but at least I'm honest enough to admit I do what just about all the rest of you do.
Oh yes, when I said dad had spent all his gifts on toys and candy, what I meant was hookers and beer. How else would you explain his general ineffectiveness lately?